Thinking of seeing a therapist? You need to read this: 5 things Jo Love has learned from 18 years in therapy

Jo Love is a trainee psychotherapist, mental health advocate, author and doodler and her first book Therapy is… Magic is a guide to what to expect when you decide to seek out a therapist, based on her 18+ years experience of seeing mental health professionals.

Writing exclusively for shelf help., Jo shares the five things she wishes she’d known before she began her therapeutic journey…

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Just who do you think you are?! 4 ways to manage Imposter Syndrome if you have a side hustle

Fiona Thomas is an author and mental health advocate whose passion is working with female-led businesses and shining a light on the positive impact that freelancing can have on our wellbeing.

Writing exclusively for shelf help. Fiona explains why those of us working a side hustle are often more likely to suffer from imposter syndrome, and shares four ways to help manage that pesky self-saboteur…

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Can a Meaningless Life Make You HAPPIER? An introduction to sunny nihilism

Are you currently experiencing crushing existential dread? If so, there’s no need to panic because: a: you’re not alone, and b: this could be the key to your long-term happiness! In her new book, The Sunny Nihilist: How a meaningless life can make you truly happy, author Wendy Syfret explains why chasing a life filled with meaning and achievement doesn’t actually make us happy. Instead, she argues, we should embrace the idea that existence is meaningless, and watch our life improve.

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Tough times don't last. Tough people do: 3 ways to be anti-fragile

In the world we live in there are always going to be things that make us feel upset, scared, hopeless or uncomfortable. Difficult feelings - or ‘stressors’ - are a part of life. It’s how we deal with these stressors that’s important, and cultivating an anti-fragile mindset can be our secret weapon against unpleasant thoughts and experiences. Here Behavioural Scientist Diba Ferdowsi gives us the low-down on what being anti-fragile means, and how we can get there…

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You’re Never Too Old To Be Yourself: 4 steps to connecting to your passion and purpose at any age

What lights you up? What do you love doing that makes you feel joyful, inspired, enthusiastic and light? Author and women’s leadership expert Chérine Kurdi’s mission is to help women embrace who they are, trust themselves, feel enough and go for what they want- on their own terms. She does this through guiding them to find their unique zone of genius, firing their inner critic, and discovering the life-changing magic of being themselves…

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How To Eat To Beat Depression: Recipes to nourish your mental health (and yes, kale is involved)

Drew Ramsey, M.D. is a psychiatrist, founder of the Brain Food Clinic in NYC and a ‘kale evangelist’ farmer who is helping patients and readers forge a path toward greater mental health through food. In his new book he breaks down the science of nutritional psychiatry and explains which foods can improve mental wellness - and here’s a smoothie recipe to celebrate!

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Do you know your astral projections from your out-of-body experiences?! A death doula's guide to Lucid Dreaming (and why it's the key to living your best life)

The magical Tree Carr works in the esoteric realms of dreams, death and divination and in her new book, Conscious Dreamer, she explains that connecting with the power of your dreams is the key to living your best life as she guides readers through a 30-day journey to harness the power of their dreamtime. Here, writing exclusively for shelf help., she shares a brilliant 5-step guide to creating a Lucid Dreaming Practice that you can start using TONIGHT.

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Stop ruminating, cultivate integrity and stay grateful: How becoming an 'ethical hero' will help you live a more excellent life

In her new book, Ethical Excellence, Professor Heidi Giebel draws on classical wisdom traditions, modern psychology, and interviews with sixteen award-winning exemplars (ethical heroes) - including Gloria Lewis from Care in Action USA (shown here with her family) - to show how we can build excellent lives by developing ethical excellences—virtues—like gratitude, generosity, and courage.

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How To Create A Meaningful Vision Board

Having a clear sense of purpose is proven to help us lead longer and healthier lives, say this week’s featured experts and the creators of the Soul Purpose Workbook & Planner, yoga expert, Linda Barberic, and mindfulness and meditation teacher, Eliza Wing. Great! Sign us up, we say! Hang on though - what if we don’t yet know our purpose for being?! Step one - start with a vision board…. (article includes a downloadable PDF and a guided meditation)

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From WFH to WTF! How to handle the back to work transition

Some of us can’t wait to escape the house and get back to working next to other humans. But most of us are feeling nervous about the return to ‘normal’ working life, and what that might look like. Change is hard - we know that. Especially when it involves saying hello to an earlier alarm and goodbye to Lycra. With that in mind, here are 10 strategies shared by stress and anxiety experts to make that transition back to the office a little easier…

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Calm is also a verb: A healer's guide to creating balance, peace & harmony (whatever’s going on in the world)

‘Calm’ can be a verb or a noun, and this subtle difference in perception can be a defining factor in us actually experiencing a state of calm, or not. In her latest book, Find Your Calm, author, healer and founder of the Healers of the Light Alternative Healing Academy, Johanna Bassols, invites us to look at calm as a verb; a state of being and an experience that can be achieved from within. And shares five ways we can harness this magic…

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Burn BRIGHT, not out: What to do if you're headed for a 'career crash'

Have you ever found yourself glued to the couch for an entire Saturday, or even an entire weekend, only to beat yourself up for being “lazy”? Even worse, you feel more tired at the end of it. This is a signal that you are headed toward burnout. Charlene Rymsha is a clinical social worker, therapist, creator of the ‘Say Goodbye to Burnout Method’ and author of Burn Bright, and writing exclusively for shelf help. she shares four ways to avoid that career crash, as well as a simple exercise to check in with ourselves and determine our ‘Head to Body Ratio’ at any time of day…

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Be the first domino, elevate every room and do what’s hard, even when you’re afraid: How to make a difference by professional troublemaker Luvvie Ajayi Jones

In our recent interview with Luvvie, the best-selling author shared some brilliant advice as we celebrated the launch of her new book, The Fear-Fighter Manual. We were thrilled to hear her strategies on setting boundaries, speaking our mind, being the first domino, finding great role models and honouring ourselves and our responsibility to show up in the best and most courageous way we can. Here we share 9 pearls of wisdom from the ‘professional troublemaker’…

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Being on your own is not the same as being lonely: 7 reasons to own - and cherish - your alone time

Francesca Specter is an author, journalist and podcaster based in London; she’s an extrovert with a huge network of friends who has been dating for 15 years and never valued time alone, until she made a New Year’s Resolution in 2019 to spend more time by herself and it changed her life. As her first book, Alonement: How to be alone and absolutely own it, hits shelves this week, Francesca writes exclusively for shelf help. about the learned value of time spent alone in our hyper-connected society.

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